The “Messy Beautiful Love” Book Club {Begins Here – November 3rd!}

Book Club Announcement


I know we are all in the midst of the Making Your Home a Haven Series on Mondays and we aren’t really thinking about November’s Monday series quite yet BUT since it’s a book club, I want to be sure you have enough time to order your book before November 3rd!

So here are the details:


Every Monday and Thursday in November we will be reading and discussing the book Messy Beautiful Love* by Darlene Schacht, the Time Warp Wife.


Here at


Because marriage is Messy right? But it’s Beautiful too. This book is an inspirational testimony of Darlene’s messy marriage made beautiful and laced through out are Biblical and practical applications for building a Christ-centered marriage.


Purchase the book, Messy Beautiful Love, and follow the schedule below.

I can’t buy the book:  

That’s okay – just join us here anyhow and hopefully the blog posts will bless you.

Is there a Reading/Study/Companion Guide available?

I’m SO glad you asked!!! Lol!

Yes – there is a free one right here -> just click this link and it will open!  This is exclusive for us – it’s the first time for it to be released to the public free with just the click of the link!

Messy Beautiful Love Study Guide Cover

The Schedule:

Messy beautiful love book club schedule

Darlene and I were together in Dallas, Texas this past August
and we made this video for you!
Meet the Author:

(if you are seeing this post in an email – click here and come watch this video)

Love gets messy.

Financial problems, sickness, aging parents, a chronically unhappy spouse . . . trials will inevitably come that threaten your marriage. No matter how long you’ve been married or how strong your relationship is, sooner or later you are going to have a mess to clean up.

Messy Beautiful Love is about cleaning up messes God’s way, exchanging your ideas for His, and being prepared for both the best and the worst that marriage has to offer.

Messy Beautiful Love is an invitation to obedience. The cynical world says marriages don’t last, but God knows better. Tune out the world and tune in to Him. When you do that, a beautiful marriage is not only possible, it’s inevitable.
~ Darlene Schacht
Darlene blogs at, is the coauthor of Candace Cameron Bure’s New York Time’s best-selling book “Reshaping It All” and the author of Messy Beautiful Love*.

Messy Beautiful Love Cover

The book is available on Amazon at a great price today >> here* <<

I really hope you will pick up a copy of this book and invite a friend to join us for this book club!

It should be a lot of fun!

Walk with the King,



*Amazon Affiliate Link


When You Go Through Deep Waters

Overcomer Deep waters

I’ve been blogging for over 6 years and the emails never stop.  I love hearing from you all so very much and I read every. single. one. (I do not have an assistant ;) ) but I am not able to answer every. single. one.

I love reading your stories and meeting you via email but some of your stories – break my heart and some of your questions go much deeper than I could ever answer.  You see, I have a Bible degree – so I can answer your Bible questions – but many of your questions are more like counseling questions. And while we all have the Holy Spirit – the ultimate counsellor inside of us, I do not feel equipped to answer many of those emails.

And this breaks my heart.

Because we all need a safe place to land. We all need a place where we feel understood.  We all need the comfort of others in our lives when we go through deep waters.

This world is hard. Sometimes it deals us an unfair hand. Sometimes we mess up and make mistakes that bring consequences into our lives and we need help navigating our way out.  Sometimes our husband walks out the door, our friend betrays us, people in our church wound us, or our parents, the ones who should love us most, walk out on us. Sometimes addictions over run our lives or past abuses haunt us.

And there we are at our computer…alone.  Hurting.

But you are not alone.

On August 31, 2010, Janelle - a real life friend – began contributing weekly recipes here at Women Living Well Ministries.

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{never mind the bunny ears from our friend Karen Ehman standing behind us! Ha!}

Janelle, from, has faithfully served here for 4 years and I am so incredibly grateful for her.  Janelle is a compassionate woman who swoops in when someone is hurting with a meal, hugs, a listening ear, and words of wisdom.

Little did we know back in 2010 God had greater plans for her on-line than recipes!  He has laid on her heart the desire to get a masters in counseling and for her to start a new on-line website.

Do you see the cartwheels I’m doing over here!?!

Finally, a home on-line for the hurting!

At you will find a group of authors with compassionate hearts seeking to encourage you through the strength of God.

This amazing group of women is comprised of Licensed Professional Counselors, Marriage and Family Therapists, Christian Life Coaches, Business Owners, Published Authors, Professional Speakers, Professional Bloggers, Bible Study Leaders, Pastor’s Wives, Moms, and Wives…

Oh and I’m writing there too!!! :)

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Janelle writes:

Many of us have been through some of the trials you may be bearing, which is why 2 Corinthians 1:4 is a verse we continue to cling to when we think of why we’re here. Don’t, for one second think, “this is a group of perfect Christians”, because there is no such thing. We are Christians because we believe in the Gospel of Jesus Christ , humbled and fully knowing we need a Savior.

Many of us have been right there in your shoes…believe it or not.

Yes, your shoes…

We pray to speak to the woman who have had an abortion, affairs, drug addiction (you fill in the blank) and our prayer is to use God’s word and truth to give her freedom. We pray for her to finally be released from bondage, from the lies she tells herself, and from the condemnation of the enemy that she is not worthy to go forward in her walk with the Lord and in her ministry.

We pray to speak to the oppressed, ill, victimized, tormented, abused, and bullied…we want to share God’s truth and love with you… and encourage you. We want to walk beside you to let you know…

You will get through this…

Janelle’s blog has begun and starting on October 1st there will be new content daily!

So please stop by the blog here:!

You can find Overcomer Outreach on the following social media channels: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Pinterest

Because we believe there is healing in the words “me too”, our authors have joyfully set up Facebook forums for individual struggles, these groups are *closed, meaning people can see that you are a part of the group, however they cannot see the conversations unless they are in the group. We welcome you with open arms to the following groups.

Janelle Nehrenz will be involved in all groups, she has gratefully accepted the help of her authors to lead specific areas of compassion meaningful to them. Although she has not gone through each trial, she is empathetic to all of them.

Overcomer Outreach on…
Adoption, Foster Care & Orphan Care Leader: Erica Elm
Infertility Leader: Shon Murray
Marriage Leader: Sonya Schroeder
Finding Joy Leader: Emanda Rosen
Fear Leader: Mandy Pagano
Homeschooling Leader: Mrs Jeanette Wood
Cancer Leader: Debby Derby
Positive Thinking and Encouragement Leader: Sarah Beals
Freedom from Bondage: Walking in Grace and Truth Leader: Gina Smith

Because of the sensitive nature of this topic, we have one *secret* group on Abortion. This means that no one can see that you are a part of this group on your FB account. To be a part of this forum, you must friend Kelly K Writes and she must add you. Overcomer Outreach is pro-life, however our prayer is to help release those having gone through with abortion from condemnation, so that they can be free again through Christ.

Together – let’s overcome by the blood of the lamb! (Revelation 12:11)

Walk with the King,


Coming Soon…A Virtual Marriage Retreat & Messy Beautiful Love


I am so excited to share with you the “Embrace Your Marriage” Virtual Marriage Retreat! I am partnering up with some of my favorite marriage bloggers every Monday in the month of September, to focus on our marriages! Each week we will include a challenge and links to the other writers so you can virtually visit us all! While we all hold the same Biblical principles, we each have our own unique perspective and life experiences. We pray this will bless you! Join me back here this Monday, September 1st as we begin!

And while we are on the topic of marriage – I must share a marriage book that is about to be released. Messy Beautiful Love Cover

(to view the book trailer – click here)

I had the honor of writing the forward to Messy Beautiful Love: Hope and Redemption for Real-Life Marriages* by Darlene Schacht (aka the Time Warp Wife). This November, I plan to host a 4 week book club here at Women Living Well using this book. So if you think you want to join this book club – now might be a  great time to purchase it because look at these freebies Darlene is offering!!!!


Messy Beautiful Love Freebies

To get all of the details about the freebies >>>go here! Once you’ve pre-ordered Messy Beautiful Love*, send an mail to with a copy of your receipt and the quantity of books you purchased to receive your freebies!

Tomorrow I’ll be sharing the GMG reading plans and study guides for the Blogging Through the Bible series! See you back here then!

Walk with the King,


*Amazon Affiliate Link

Do Not Be Discouraged When You Feel Judged

I am still on my blogging break but I am in Dallas, Texas this morning at a Women in Ministry Summit with Kay Arthur (author of over 100 Bible Studies!) and Logos Bible Software.

I had the opportunity to sit next to Kay Arthur and ask her many questions during breakfast yesterday.

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My mother has led her Precept Bible Studies for over 35 years. I am a product of Kay discipling my mother and my mother discipling me. So this was truly a joy to meet Kay, at the age of 80, in real life.

I was also trained on the amazing Logos Bible Software that includes so many Bible study tools and helps including commentaries, Bible dictionaries, lexicons and concordances all quickly at the touch of a fingertip in one place.  It’s amazing!

There were 50 of us like-minded women in ministry there including:

Janelle – Comfy In the Kitchen, Darlene – Time Warp Wife, and Jennifer – the Unveiled Wife

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Renee Swope of Proverbs 31 Ministries

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Rachael Wojo and Jennie Allen

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Heidi St. John – The Busy Mom

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And others like Liz Curtis Higgs, Elisa Morgan – CEO of MOPS, Sally Clarkson, Chrystal Hurst, Rachael Myers & Amanda Smith of She Reads Truth, Pam Ferrell who I really enjoyed – she’s the author of Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti and 40 more books, Margaret Feinberg, Lisa Harper, Patsy Clairmont, Susie Larson,  Cindy Bultema, Lore Ferguson, Jessica Thompson, Elyse Fitzpatrick and many more I’m forgetting. (I’m a little delirious from lack of sleep. Lol!)

So I am filled up, inspired and so very blessed and can’t wait to get back home to my family!

But I will remain on a blogging break a wee bit longer.

Until then, visit me today over at the Better Mom where we are discussing when you feel judged by other Christians.

Depressed Mother Cuddling Newborn Baby

Walk with the King!

I’ll Be Back Mid-August…

writing project

It’s time for me to take a little blogging break while I work on a new writing project! I can’t wait to share it with you all! I just love the the topic and can’t wait to have a little extra time to spend on it.

While I’m away, here’s some links to things that might interest you:

The Women Living Well Webcasts from last summer – {Seven 45 minute sessions featuring some of my favorite bloggers} – all posted over at!

WLW Conf couch

Join Darlene over at for the second half of the Women Living Well Book Club happening until the end of July.

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And if you don’t have the book, Women Living Well: Finding Your Joy in God, Your Man, Your Kids and Your Home, yet it is available in most book stores or on Amazon here*.

I’ll see you all mid-August!

Walk with the King!

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