Winners Announced and a Consolation Prize!

The 2 winners of Karen Ehman’s book “The Complete Guide to Getting and Staying Organized” are…

Jen in AL – kcjenkey

Julia – Thequillens

Congratulations!!! Please email your address to me at courtney(at)womenlivingwell(dot)org

And for everyone who did not win – I have something for you!!!

Jessalyn Hutto from Desiring Virtue has created an AWESOME free printable for home management!  Jessalyn is the author and editor of DV. Desiring Virtue is a Christ-centered, doctrinally rich resource for Christian women who desire to bring honor to the Lord through their homemaking.

Desiring Virtue

How do I get it?

Simply download your Plan of Attack (It’s free!) and then print* out the pages that will benefit you the most.

*Make sure that you choose which pages you want to print or you will print all four version at once… maybe a little overkill.

Plan of Attack (4 Versions)

Don’t forget to visit Jessalyn over at Desiring Virtue and check out her other printables!

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5 Disciplines~Week 2 – Time Management

First let me begin with a Week 1 update:  My “Body Challenge” goal was to lose 5 pounds in 5 weeks.  As of today, I have lost 1 1/2 pounds and I think if I eat one jelly bean I will gain this pound back.  lol!  So this means I must continue to skip my after dinner snack and exercise 20 minutes, 3+ times a week to maintain this loss and continue to lose more.  If you took the week one challenge and have an update – please leave it in the comment section – this is your accountability :) !

Now let’s move into week two’s Discipline –  Time Management!

One thing I have realized this week as I’ve tried to add in exercise is that it’s hard for me to find time.  Basically, it appears that I’m using all my time doing something I want or need to be doing – which means I have to stop doing something in order to add in exercise…which I really don’t feel like doing…so it’s easy to just think “I don’t have time.”   I have it – it’s just not how I want to spend it! :(

Elizabeth Elliot says in her book Discipline-The Glad Surrender:Time management, a highly developed science today, begins for the Christian with time set aside for God.  Other things cannot fall into a peaceful order if this is omitted.”

Here is why time management begins with our time spent with God…how will we know how to spend our time – what we should commit to and what we should say “no” to, if we are not in communion with God?

As God’s children we should be praying “Thy will be done” but often times we are praying “my list be done.” 

The mistake here is that we may put onto our own plate more than God would put on our plate  – and as a result raise our stress levels to extremely high levels.

Jesus says – “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”~ Matthew 11:28,29

When our stress levels are high – it is nearly impossible to be kind, patient, gentle and in tune with our husband and children.  We are too busy to stop to care and there is absolutely no room for error in the day.  We need to guard our time so there is room to breathe – room to kiss booboos, read a mind stretching-soul inspiring book, soak in a bubble bath or linger long with your husband in bed.  These are gifts that God has given us to enjoy.

What gifts have you turned down from God because you are over-committed or pursuing the wrong things?

 “There is always enough time to do the will of God.”~Elizabeth Elliot

I love schedules.  God created us as creatures of habit and we see in creation a natural rhythm as the sun sets and rises day after day and the seasons change one after another every.single.year.

There are some things set into our weeks that we can’t escape.  We all have to cook, clean and do laundry.  So why not create a rhythm in our homes to accomplish the mundane, so we are free to enjoy fun, family and fellowship!  Here’s an example of my cleaning schedule:

This schedule guarantees that everything gets done at least once a week…truthfully…some of these things need to be done twice a week.  By about day 5 – the house looks like a tornado :(   I know this schedule cannot work for everyone (especially doing laundry just one day a week for large families) BUT it’s a good place to start.  And it’s time to be pro-active and think through what DOES work.

If you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time. ~ Zig Ziglar

Week 2 – Challenge:
1.  Sit down and look at your calendar.  Think about your priorities.
2.  Pray and ask God to give you wisdom as to what you should be doing with your time.
3.  Write out a list of what you need to get done this week – don’t forget to write in time with God!  (you can use the free printable below as a guide :) !)
4.  Every morning this week, look over your to-do list.  Pray and ask God for wisdom.  Add, take away or move things on your list accordingly.
5. Continue this discipline next week and the week after.  Soon you will find order and rhythm to your days and weeks.

5 Weeks 5 Disciplines – Time Management

Here’s last week’s printable if you need a fresh one for the new week:
5 Weeks 5 Disciplines – Body
Are you taking the Time Management Challenge – tell us in the comment section? 

If you have any time management tips, please share them!!! 

If you are a blogger – write about it, post this button in your post or side bar and then link-up below!

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How Do I Clean In The Midst of These Kids?

 

This is an excellent question and I have found this to be one of the greatest challenges as a mom with little ones. It’s obvious that when we compare which is more important – cleaning vs. your children – that the children are more important.  BUT I don’t look at these two as mutually exclusive. Our goal as moms should not be to entertain our children and to coral them from one fun activity to the next. They need to fellowship in the daily activities of their parents. Our children need to be praised for more than just sitting quietly while they watch Elmo. They should find purpose, comfort, and joy at the side of their mother.

Now while we all can nod our heads in agreement that this is what we want for our children, living this out is terribly difficult.  It takes a lot of patience, endurance and organization to create a system where this works. And truly, most days it takes a lot of prayer and deep breaths! Lol!

Glynnis Whitwer, a writer for Proverbs 31 Ministries, has invited me to guest post at her blog today!  She is doing a series on Spring Cleaning – Click HERE to visit me there and read the end of “How Do I Clean In the Midst of These Kids?”  And then click around and read some of the other fabulous posts on spring cleaning!

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My Reflections on the Academy Awards

The Academy Awards are this weekend. 

It’s the famous ones who walk the red carpet.
 
It’s the honored ones who walk the red carpet.
 
It’s the beautiful ones who walk the red carpet.
 
It’s the talented ones who walk the red carpet.
 
It’s the wealthy ones who walk the red carpet.
 
It’s the gifted ones who walk the red carpet.
 
And I…I am about to walk the red carpet!
 
Every morning, I walk the red carpet right up to my sink where I rinse the morning dishes.


I am honored to have a husband and children to take care of.

I am beautiful in the eyes of the Lord, living out his will for my life as a wife and mother.
 
I am wealthy on the red carpet, for many in the world do not have a sink with running water in their kitchen.
 
I am gifted on the red carpet – gifted with the riches of God’s grace that come through my faith in Christ Jesus his son.
 
There is no greater honor than the red carpet walk I do every morning in my kitchen.

 
Join me, as you step up to your kitchen sink – in welcoming a joy that the world cannot understand.
 
My red carpet is…
A GIFT.

Thank you sweet Jesus for delighting me with this gift!

 
Walk with the King!
 
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